So I asked him for a divorce, well, sort of. We went out to lunch and I brought up our relationship problems. I said I think it is time to get a divorce. And it just kind of got lost in the conversation. I didn’t want to push it. I was completely drained of courage just bringing up the subject.
I didn’t blame or tell him the real reason I want a divorce. That would just start an avalanche of accusations and blame on me. It never works to confront a narcissist with their bad behavior. They just end up turning it around on you, no matter how bizarre or untrue it is.
We talked about being unhappy, not having anything in common, etc. and after lunch we went to Cosco.
Is that the way all divorce conversations go?